in a r/s,
we should nv ever compare.
nv compare abt status.
nv compare abt language.
nv compare abt tones.
nv compare abt friends.
nv compare abt family members.
the whole issue abt comparing only negatified the rs and will not beautified the rs.
looking at the big picture, differences should be accomodated and not being compared.
i hate to compare and i'm still learning to have a bigger heart to accomodate.
