been some time since i really work from home, admist all the checking of mails during my off days.
glad i did it.
it's too tedious a process.
nah.
talking abt inter-ctry project...
wat to do...
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Chapter 3
My mum bought me a ten.eighty blingz hairband which supposedly is already at a discount.
The original price on the tag (from what i saw) is eighteen bucks.
duhz!
it better be of a certain quality blingz.
it better not drop any single blingz over the next 6 months.
and i saw my mum got one for my sis as well.
duhz! that's twenty bucks lor.
i'm feeling the pinch.
damn!
whatever happen to me?
it's blingz!
aiyeh.. i just feel my mum kena conned.
worst, she said 'it's ok lah. bu hui gui!'
when i actually,
shouted..'HUH! TEN DOLLARS FOR THIS?'
gosh.
i'm really saving up now.
The original price on the tag (from what i saw) is eighteen bucks.
duhz!
it better be of a certain quality blingz.
it better not drop any single blingz over the next 6 months.
and i saw my mum got one for my sis as well.
duhz! that's twenty bucks lor.
i'm feeling the pinch.
damn!
whatever happen to me?
it's blingz!
aiyeh.. i just feel my mum kena conned.
worst, she said 'it's ok lah. bu hui gui!'
when i actually,
shouted..'HUH! TEN DOLLARS FOR THIS?'
gosh.
i'm really saving up now.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Chapter 2.3
me new love.
LV french purse!
drool~ can someone introduce it to me at a cheaper rate?
or recommend a cheaper purchase?!
LV french purse!
drool~ can someone introduce it to me at a cheaper rate?
or recommend a cheaper purchase?!
Chapter 2.2
I'm gonna settle for a LV and not gucci anymore.
I have had enough of fancy thoughts.
It's time to put them into reality.
I have had enough of fancy thoughts.
It's time to put them into reality.
Chapter 2
I remember quite clearly it wasnt me who say not to invite the Heads.
Now it seems that it is me.
Idoitic to the max.
Now it seems that it is me.
Idoitic to the max.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Chapter 1
read this from a mag - Cosmopolitan
how true.. i tot some of the replies are rather.. ahem.. sweet?!
Q1] What's your most common argument with gfs?
R1 - Money - when she spends mine!
R2 - We argue abt things I do - or rather dont do - like watching TV instead of doing the washing.
Q2] Who gets blamed for arguments?
R1 - Me, I'll accept blame for an easy life. (this is what my guy should be like!)
R2 - I like to flip the blame back on to her, so even if I'm wrong I'm always right. I'll try to make her think it's her fault. (-_-||| GUYS!)
Q3] What's your arguing style?
R1 - It's like a game of tennis. Women hit it to you and you bat it back.
R2 - I tend to let things build up, so when i do finally say something, it all comes out.
R3 - I make my pt, then make myself busy and leave her to think abt it. (fair enough)
Q4] Have you ever refused to back down, even when she's right?
R1 - I dont see the advantage of that. Life's much easier if you back down.
R2 - If it's you who made the mistake, what's the pt in not backing down? If you know you're wrong, it's not fair.
R3 - There's no pleasure in deliberately winding her up - and yo'll pay for it.
(EXACTLY!)
Q5] What annoys you most abt the way women argue? (sadly.. i'm into all...)
R1 - Girls always think they're right.
R2 - They make you feel really small.
R3 - I once broke up with a girl because she argued abt everything.
'R4 - I sometimes cant rem whether what she's complaining abt actually happened or if she's just making it up.
Q6] How do you feel when women cry during an argument? (uber sweetness of the guys!)
R1 - Awful.
R2 - Guilty as hell.
R3 - It just feels wrong.
R4 - When a woman cries during an argument, you just want to give them a cuddle. But we shouldnt be telling you this - we're giving you ammo!
Q7] And what about when women swear?
R1 - It shows they're passionate, especialy if they dont usually swear.
R2 - If they're frustrated enough to resort to swearing, you know you're in trouble.
Q8] What arguing style annoys you the most?
R1 - When they dont listen to anything you say. That really frustrates me.
R2 - When they send you on a guilt trip for something you didnt do on purpose.
Q9] Have you ever threatened to dump a girl and not meant it?
R1 - I once said, 'If you dont lie it, just leave,' - but I was praying she wouldnt' It was just a last resort to try to win the argument!
Q10] Do you ever involve other people in your arguments?
R1 - I'd rather keep the argument between us. It's not anything to do with other people.
R2 - You cant win.
Q11] Do you think arguing can be good for a relationship?
R1 - Once we've had an argument, things are better than they were before because we understand each other better.
R2 - An argument is just a discussion about things that mean something to you both.
Q12] Whats the difference between a row with your friends and a row with your gf?
R1 - You can say exactly what you think to your mates and make up over a pint the next day. But if you fall out with your gf, you might never get back on track.
Q13] Would you get into an argument if someone had upset your gf? (i wish this is the case too...)
R1 - Definitely - if somebody upsets her, they upset me. I'd defend her, even if she was in the wrong.
R2 - When you're arguing together, you know how far you'll both go. But when some stranger starts yelling at her, you donk know what they might do next.
----
Find out (how to win those man rows...)
1. Men tend to be solution-oriented. Present your argument as a problem and he's more likely to resolve the issue.
2. Choose your moment - and avoid alcohol if you're planning on bringing up a serious issue.
3. Dont project the issue in your relationship on to him by thinking, 'If he did what i want, our relationship will be really good.'
4. Not saying anything when you're furious is just being passive-aggressive - and he'll generally be able to tell.
5. There's a big difference between assertion and aggression. If you're shouting, your message is being lost.
6. If you're both struggling to listen, set a timer for five mins at a time, and dont interrupt while the other person's talking.
7. Consider your audience. Think abt the way he's likely to hear what you're saying.
8. Dont use blame to win arguments; Say, 'When this happened, it made me feel...',not, 'It's your fault...'
9. Whatever the outcome of your argument, see it as progress!
how true.. i tot some of the replies are rather.. ahem.. sweet?!
Q1] What's your most common argument with gfs?
R1 - Money - when she spends mine!
R2 - We argue abt things I do - or rather dont do - like watching TV instead of doing the washing.
Q2] Who gets blamed for arguments?
R1 - Me, I'll accept blame for an easy life. (this is what my guy should be like!)
R2 - I like to flip the blame back on to her, so even if I'm wrong I'm always right. I'll try to make her think it's her fault. (-_-||| GUYS!)
Q3] What's your arguing style?
R1 - It's like a game of tennis. Women hit it to you and you bat it back.
R2 - I tend to let things build up, so when i do finally say something, it all comes out.
R3 - I make my pt, then make myself busy and leave her to think abt it. (fair enough)
Q4] Have you ever refused to back down, even when she's right?
R1 - I dont see the advantage of that. Life's much easier if you back down.
R2 - If it's you who made the mistake, what's the pt in not backing down? If you know you're wrong, it's not fair.
R3 - There's no pleasure in deliberately winding her up - and yo'll pay for it.
(EXACTLY!)
Q5] What annoys you most abt the way women argue? (sadly.. i'm into all...)
R1 - Girls always think they're right.
R2 - They make you feel really small.
R3 - I once broke up with a girl because she argued abt everything.
'R4 - I sometimes cant rem whether what she's complaining abt actually happened or if she's just making it up.
Q6] How do you feel when women cry during an argument? (uber sweetness of the guys!)
R1 - Awful.
R2 - Guilty as hell.
R3 - It just feels wrong.
R4 - When a woman cries during an argument, you just want to give them a cuddle. But we shouldnt be telling you this - we're giving you ammo!
Q7] And what about when women swear?
R1 - It shows they're passionate, especialy if they dont usually swear.
R2 - If they're frustrated enough to resort to swearing, you know you're in trouble.
Q8] What arguing style annoys you the most?
R1 - When they dont listen to anything you say. That really frustrates me.
R2 - When they send you on a guilt trip for something you didnt do on purpose.
Q9] Have you ever threatened to dump a girl and not meant it?
R1 - I once said, 'If you dont lie it, just leave,' - but I was praying she wouldnt' It was just a last resort to try to win the argument!
Q10] Do you ever involve other people in your arguments?
R1 - I'd rather keep the argument between us. It's not anything to do with other people.
R2 - You cant win.
Q11] Do you think arguing can be good for a relationship?
R1 - Once we've had an argument, things are better than they were before because we understand each other better.
R2 - An argument is just a discussion about things that mean something to you both.
Q12] Whats the difference between a row with your friends and a row with your gf?
R1 - You can say exactly what you think to your mates and make up over a pint the next day. But if you fall out with your gf, you might never get back on track.
Q13] Would you get into an argument if someone had upset your gf? (i wish this is the case too...)
R1 - Definitely - if somebody upsets her, they upset me. I'd defend her, even if she was in the wrong.
R2 - When you're arguing together, you know how far you'll both go. But when some stranger starts yelling at her, you donk know what they might do next.
----
Find out (how to win those man rows...)
1. Men tend to be solution-oriented. Present your argument as a problem and he's more likely to resolve the issue.
2. Choose your moment - and avoid alcohol if you're planning on bringing up a serious issue.
3. Dont project the issue in your relationship on to him by thinking, 'If he did what i want, our relationship will be really good.'
4. Not saying anything when you're furious is just being passive-aggressive - and he'll generally be able to tell.
5. There's a big difference between assertion and aggression. If you're shouting, your message is being lost.
6. If you're both struggling to listen, set a timer for five mins at a time, and dont interrupt while the other person's talking.
7. Consider your audience. Think abt the way he's likely to hear what you're saying.
8. Dont use blame to win arguments; Say, 'When this happened, it made me feel...',not, 'It's your fault...'
9. Whatever the outcome of your argument, see it as progress!
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