Very handsome!
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Sunday, February 21, 2010
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Fighting Going Too Far?
How far is too far when married couples argue?
Every couple has arguments and disagreements from time to time.
It is a normal part of any relationship.
But how do you know when your marriage has crossed over from normal conflict to serious problems?
According to Dr James Dobson, the difference between stable families and those in serious trouble is defined by what happens after a fight.
In a healthy relationship, confrontation ends in forgiveness. Couples come back together again, showing their love and respect for each other and then put the matter behind them.
But, in unstable marriages, conflict produces even greater pain and resentment. And the anger will usually hang on until the next flight. This causes bitterness to build and accumulate.
It is a devastating dynamic that will eventually kill the marriage.
That is why a proverb tells us not to let the sun go down on our wrath.
* xtracted from TODAY, 10 Feb 2010 *
Every couple has arguments and disagreements from time to time.
It is a normal part of any relationship.
But how do you know when your marriage has crossed over from normal conflict to serious problems?
According to Dr James Dobson, the difference between stable families and those in serious trouble is defined by what happens after a fight.
In a healthy relationship, confrontation ends in forgiveness. Couples come back together again, showing their love and respect for each other and then put the matter behind them.
But, in unstable marriages, conflict produces even greater pain and resentment. And the anger will usually hang on until the next flight. This causes bitterness to build and accumulate.
It is a devastating dynamic that will eventually kill the marriage.
That is why a proverb tells us not to let the sun go down on our wrath.
* xtracted from TODAY, 10 Feb 2010 *
Friday, February 5, 2010
Chapter 54- Professional practices?
How can one talk abt being professional if your co-colleagues are a total bastard?
Like being all nice in front of everyone but is actually a rotten apple within?
How can you still continue to be professional if your handover are like half-fuck?
Neither here nor there and expect us to clean up the leftover?
Professional practices?
Probably we shouldn't even bother covering for u.
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Like being all nice in front of everyone but is actually a rotten apple within?
How can you still continue to be professional if your handover are like half-fuck?
Neither here nor there and expect us to clean up the leftover?
Professional practices?
Probably we shouldn't even bother covering for u.
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Thursday, February 4, 2010
Chapter 53
Chapter 36 - 52 are not labelled.
Okie.. actually i'm trying another app.
i'm so glad google is ard.. woohooo!
Okie.. actually i'm trying another app.
i'm so glad google is ard.. woohooo!
ever since the door (huh? e door? nahmind..) to blog using my bb opens (??), i notice most, in fact all my pos since then are blog using my bb.
actually, it's becos of a very simple reason.
basically uploading photos po are so much faster using bb.
after snapping, send via email and tadah! the po is up!
fast, sweet and easy!
mm... it's different from sending to twitter though.
cos tweets doesnt really keep the memories like how a blog does...
so yup, i have lesser photo-tweets.
gonna start my class this weekend.
really looking forward to it.
1 more course to go and i'll be done with schooling.
heh... though the thought of going for Master did cross my mind sometimes,
but nah... dont think i wanna do it.
i guess i'll be more than satisfied after getting my degree.
this year is gonna be quite different for me.
i have lot of plans and ideas in mind.
alot of things waiting to be accomplish.
some, i'm already working on it.
some, i'm still holding on.
some, i'm not even sure if i can do it.
nonetheless, i'm really looking forward to a better year.
Jan passed fast.
Work has been so busy since week 2.
i barely have time to settle down.
i am already seeing myself uptight over mar and april.
how strategically can i move, to be and get what i want?
it's quite hard actually.
but we shall see.
quite sensitive to blog abt it.
one more week to CNY as well.
how's everyone preparation so far?
i think mine has been quite good.
like i mentioned, i'm slightly prepared for everything this year.
off hand, i'm only left with getting a belt for my dress.
i even cleaned my room twice.
took leave today since the bf claims his off.
afterall.. i didnt really have a good rest since the start of the year.
good and bad things all happened at the same time.
so the rest today is perfect.
had my fav dim sum buffet, and arghhh! i cant really eat much these days.
like i'm so full after 1.5 rounds can?
overall, i feel that we can do better leh.. but the bf said it's probably cos we are older now.
older = eat lesser?
hahahahah!!!
headed to queensway later.
damn auntie.
i walked the whole place comparing all the prices.
okay, everywhere is actually selling the same price if i'm not wrong.
bought ourselves new pair of slippers to replace the 1 or 1.5 yrs old havaianas.
i must say both of us really have a certain standard for our belongings.
that's if we are comparing the price of what we buy vs what we can get.
few weeks ago, i also have this qn running through my mind.
'how much are you worth? not just the cash you carry when you go out, but also the assets you have with you whenever you head out?
for me, it's quite alot leh.
let's see:
kate spade bag - $350
ds lite - $250
canon e1 - $399
bb - $300
jpg wallet - $250 thereabout (cant rem)
ck watch - $350
cash - $50??
i think most peeps cost abt this also lor.
i haven even add the price of my clothes and shoes.
but okie la.. both my clothing and shoes are quite cheap compared to what i carry.
so imagine if one day i lost my bag?
i think i can go kill myself.
or if one day i meet a snatcher?
then i'll make sure i fight all out if he trys to snatch me.
hahah! k la.. the above is quite random.
but somehow, i'm quite curious of what others carry when they go out ma.
like some carry LV bag, inside they have LV pouch and LV wallet, all together also? on top of that, they use bb or iphone? also alot of $$ right...
so yah lor.. these are where all the hard-earned $$ go.
LOL
k lah.. ebough of crap. i think this is quite a long po to make up for all the short bb po updates. mahahahha
gonna catch abit of zhu guang b4 AI starts.
it's a long po duhz...
time to start blabbering for the 'assignment-aspiration' to flow. haha!
my first due date is 22 Feb leh.
sucky lor.. this would mean that CNY holidays will be burnt doing assignment. -_-
and last last.. i want to save up for a really good wedding and new life within 3 yrs la!
overseas photoshoot,
custom-made gowns,
5* dinner,
pre-honeymood @maldives,
honeymood @spain,
new flat (w really good reno),
a car,
and the list continues...
so how? 3 yrs leh.. i'll be 27 by then.
27 then get married k.. so whoever ask me when is my turn..
WHEN I TURN 27 HOR!
unless, unless.. you have sponsors for photoshoots, for gowns, for maldives and spains and for our dinner.. if not.. dont ask. =P
actually, it's becos of a very simple reason.
basically uploading photos po are so much faster using bb.
after snapping, send via email and tadah! the po is up!
fast, sweet and easy!
mm... it's different from sending to twitter though.
cos tweets doesnt really keep the memories like how a blog does...
so yup, i have lesser photo-tweets.
gonna start my class this weekend.
really looking forward to it.
1 more course to go and i'll be done with schooling.
heh... though the thought of going for Master did cross my mind sometimes,
but nah... dont think i wanna do it.
i guess i'll be more than satisfied after getting my degree.
this year is gonna be quite different for me.
i have lot of plans and ideas in mind.
alot of things waiting to be accomplish.
some, i'm already working on it.
some, i'm still holding on.
some, i'm not even sure if i can do it.
nonetheless, i'm really looking forward to a better year.
Jan passed fast.
Work has been so busy since week 2.
i barely have time to settle down.
i am already seeing myself uptight over mar and april.
how strategically can i move, to be and get what i want?
it's quite hard actually.
but we shall see.
quite sensitive to blog abt it.
one more week to CNY as well.
how's everyone preparation so far?
i think mine has been quite good.
like i mentioned, i'm slightly prepared for everything this year.
off hand, i'm only left with getting a belt for my dress.
i even cleaned my room twice.
took leave today since the bf claims his off.
afterall.. i didnt really have a good rest since the start of the year.
good and bad things all happened at the same time.
so the rest today is perfect.
had my fav dim sum buffet, and arghhh! i cant really eat much these days.
like i'm so full after 1.5 rounds can?
overall, i feel that we can do better leh.. but the bf said it's probably cos we are older now.
older = eat lesser?
hahahahah!!!
headed to queensway later.
damn auntie.
i walked the whole place comparing all the prices.
okay, everywhere is actually selling the same price if i'm not wrong.
bought ourselves new pair of slippers to replace the 1 or 1.5 yrs old havaianas.
i must say both of us really have a certain standard for our belongings.
that's if we are comparing the price of what we buy vs what we can get.
few weeks ago, i also have this qn running through my mind.
'how much are you worth? not just the cash you carry when you go out, but also the assets you have with you whenever you head out?
for me, it's quite alot leh.
let's see:
kate spade bag - $350
ds lite - $250
canon e1 - $399
bb - $300
jpg wallet - $250 thereabout (cant rem)
ck watch - $350
cash - $50??
i think most peeps cost abt this also lor.
i haven even add the price of my clothes and shoes.
but okie la.. both my clothing and shoes are quite cheap compared to what i carry.
so imagine if one day i lost my bag?
i think i can go kill myself.
or if one day i meet a snatcher?
then i'll make sure i fight all out if he trys to snatch me.
hahah! k la.. the above is quite random.
but somehow, i'm quite curious of what others carry when they go out ma.
like some carry LV bag, inside they have LV pouch and LV wallet, all together also? on top of that, they use bb or iphone? also alot of $$ right...
so yah lor.. these are where all the hard-earned $$ go.
LOL
k lah.. ebough of crap. i think this is quite a long po to make up for all the short bb po updates. mahahahha
gonna catch abit of zhu guang b4 AI starts.
it's a long po duhz...
time to start blabbering for the 'assignment-aspiration' to flow. haha!
my first due date is 22 Feb leh.
sucky lor.. this would mean that CNY holidays will be burnt doing assignment. -_-
and last last.. i want to save up for a really good wedding and new life within 3 yrs la!
overseas photoshoot,
custom-made gowns,
5* dinner,
pre-honeymood @maldives,
honeymood @spain,
new flat (w really good reno),
a car,
and the list continues...
so how? 3 yrs leh.. i'll be 27 by then.
27 then get married k.. so whoever ask me when is my turn..
WHEN I TURN 27 HOR!
unless, unless.. you have sponsors for photoshoots, for gowns, for maldives and spains and for our dinner.. if not.. dont ask. =P
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